Work & life

Thoughts/musing about how parts of our life are connected & integrated rather than simply balanced separately

Ioana Finichiu

As the weeks roll into months since our routine was put on hold and we started adapting to social/physical distancing and remote work, I see signs of increasing restlessness and search for connections we were able to (more easily) make in a pre-COVID world.

These days, despite the many tools available to help us stay connected 24/7, conversations seem to be transactional and mostly limited to our daily work bubbles. Gone are the days where you could run into an acquaintance at a coffee shop between meetings, catch up on your respective work and learn about new projects and potential connections. Gone also the opportunities to linger after a particularly invigorating conference talk to exchange with the speaker, or the hallway chit-chat between sessions, often equally as impactful as anything heard in a formal setting.

I hear people say they are eager to return to the office and how they crave the daily exchanges with peers. Some folks would benefit from going to a physical office environment, where the temperature is comfortable, where dedicated ergonomic work spaces are available, and distractions from combining home and work life are less intrusive. More often, though, people cite spontaneous human interaction as a reason for wanting to return to office spaces.

But in a world where a simple run to the convenience store requires planning and a checklist of items to bring, is there really still such a thing as spontaneous interaction? Or do we have to get creative and intentional about creating new spaces for this to happen?

Return-to-occupancy plans attempt to spell out a new normal with anywhere between 15 to 60% occupancy rates. In reality, what that looks like will be wildly different in every city and even for every organization. What is to become of the ‘elevator pitch’ if only one person may ride in an elevator at a time? Randomly running into a colleague from another work area? Highly unlikely – what is likely to happen is you both book the same office time slot and agree to meet up. We are far from spontaneous team huddles and team meetings where 12 people squeeze into a small boardroom, and even farther from hundreds (or thousands) of people milling around an industry conference, exchanging ideas, contact info, and sketching plans for collaboration. Shaking hands to seal the deal is practically vintage now.

Where does that leave the (largely unsatisfied) need for networking, netweaving, and connecting with others for yet-to-be-discovered common schemes? How about the folks who rely on these connections to find a job or expand their knowledge? Will we enter a creative vacuum as our growth and perspective become limited by the bubbles we already belong to?

In a world designed to minimize physical interaction, how do we satisfy our craving for spontaneous, on-the-fly exchanges and seemingly random path-crossing? In other words, how do we add serendipity and spontaneity into meticulously orchestrated physical interactions designed to keep us safe? It is, indeed, a brave new (planners’) world.

Ioana Finichiu

If our work world was a video game, the three measures of the health of a character should be unconditional kindness, caring, and respect. I say and really mean unconditional, because these three should not come with strings attached; they should not be dependent on moods, on how we perceive someone, influenced by our last interaction with someone else, personality clashes, or based on their performance.

Start each relationship with full tanks of kindness, respect, and caring, and give them away generously. Don't make people feel they have to earn or work for them. Every person deserves these unconditionally as a basic foundation of human interaction.

If you've been working for a while, you might have come across a less-than ideal coworker who doesn't pull their weight on a project, a colleague who takes credit for your work, a person whose negativity sucks the energy out of the entire workplace, a boss who makes you feel like you won't ever be good enough. You might have seen situations escalate and relationships break down because respect, caring, or kindness (sometimes all three) were withheld. If you start with empty tanks and experience a relationship breakdown, how do you even go in the positive?

If we make people feel they have to earn our respect, caring, or kindness, how do we expect them to be secure, confident, and high-performing? Create the conditions you want to thrive in, the conditions you want your coworkers, bosses, and employees to thrive in. Be intentional about building good relationships and start by offering everyone unconditional kindness, caring, and respect. Our collective wellbeing might just depend on it.

Ioana Finichiu

Depuis quelques mois je travaille avec un groupe d'amis pour organiser un événement d'assez grande envergure à Ottawa. Nous planifions, développons, et allons offrir un événement du type 'non-conférence' à tous ceux et celles qui veulent participer a la réforme du secteur public.

La gang / Photo courtoisie de Joël Bourgeoys La gang / Photo courtoisie de Joël Bourgeoys

Nous faisons partie d'un mouvement mondial : OneTeamGov, GouvEnsemble en français au Canada. Ce mouvement a commencé au Royaume-Uni il y a presque trois ans, avec la simple idée que les gens travaillant à créer des politiques et les gens qui appliquent ces mêmes politiques ne devraient pas seulement travailler ensemble, ils devraient faire partie de la meme équipe – et ce afin de pouvoir servir notre public de la manière la plus efficace possible.

La mission du mouvement est bien claire: nous voulons réformer le secteur public par des actions pratiques, et toutes nos actions sont encrées par sept principes.

L'intérêt ne cesse de grandir – la plateforme GouvEnsemble offre des occasions inouïes de créer des changements dans notre boulot journalier, dans nos propres organismes, dans nos villes, pays, et même au niveau mondial. Que l'impact soit ressenti dans notre cercle immédiat ou au niveau du système au complet, l'important, c'est de passer à l'action !

Pour moi et mon groupe d'amis, nos actions tournent autour de l'organisation d'événements, disons-le, un peu inusités – enfin, pour la grande majorité des gens qui y participent.

Pourquoi favorisons-nous ce genre d'événement? Eh bien, en premier lieu, parce qu'on aime vivre et offrir des expériences enrichissantes et qu'on a découvert au fil des ans que l'expérience la plus enrichissante est celle qui met chaque participant au premier plan, maitre de son apprentissage, au coeur de sa propre aventure. Et de deux, on a des habiletés dans les domaines nécessaires pour faire tout ça (on est pratico-pratiques, nous!).

Le prochain événement est prévu pour le 17 décembre 2019; l'équipe de planification est composée de bénévoles qui ont investi des centaines d'heures pour créer une expérience inoubliable. Nous allons passer les trois prochaines semaines à planifier soigneusement chaque petit détail pour nous assurer que toutes les conditions soient impeccables pour chaque participant. Nous avons des champions qui nous appuient mais nous avons aussi besoin d'aide de la grande collectivité de réformateurs.

Nous partageons tout ce que nous créons librement et ouvertement; c'est le cas des deux guides à l'intention des bénévoles et des facilitateurs – les gens qui seront les engrenages de l'expérience. C'est ici que nous avons besoin de vous, cher lecteur : nous avons besoin d'aide pour traduire et réviser ce travail (les deux guides) afin de le rendre accessible à tous ceux et celles qui désirent l'utiliser en français. Nous avons investi beaucoup de temps pour créer ces guides – il serait dommage qu'ils ne soient utiles qu'à une partie des gens qui peuvent en bénéficier.

Alors, nous faisons appel à nos amis (et amis des amis) traducteurs/réviseurs : si vous avez un peu de temps à consacrer au mouvement, au changement par les actions pratiques, à aider vos collègues du secteur public – voici une occasion de le faire. Nous vous faisons confiance, comme à chaque bénévole qui appuie le mouvement, et vous encourageons à modifier et améliorer les pages directement; nul besoin de passer par des niveaux approbations:

* Guide pour les bénévoles et le document-source en anglais: Volunteer Guide

* Guide pour les séances en petits groupes et le document-source en anglais: Breakout session guide

Toutes les contributions comptent, que vous passez cinq minutes ou cinquante minutes – nous (et tous les utilisateurs de ces guides) en sommes très reconnaissants!

NB : vous devez vous connecter au moyen de vos identifiants de compte GCcollab afin de modifier les pages

Ioana Finichiu

I’m just a big ball of mush, at the end of a week filled with all kinds of emotions. They have to come out so they may as well come out on ‘paper’. Raw, unedited, unfiltered... read at your own risk.

I am part of a fiercely tight team of people planning and delivering a big event in the coming weeks. I believe we learn from each other as much as we learn as a group- from the adversity we face, the disappointments, small and big wins, the setbacks, the outpouring of enthusiasm & encouragement we get from supporters.

We’re well versed in each other’s personality, motivations, ways of expressing ourselves, preferences. They’re pretty used to the fact that I cry openly when things touch me (it’s quite the running gag at this point) and they’ve been quite accepting of the whole thing- talk about having a space to bring your whole self.

I can only hope, reader, that you have that somewhere in your life. Being able to show you’re carrying an emotional burden, whatever those emotions are (happy, sad, worried, panicked, humble, grateful, overwhelmed, restless, content, peaceful, anxious, nervous, mad, elated) is an incredible relief. Being able to share that emotional burden with others, not putting on a brave façade only to crumble alone. And being able to help someone els